FUNDAMENTAL HAPPINESS Series 26 - Does spirituality imply religion, mysticism, occult? The answer is 'NO'.

Does bringing spirit to your lives mean giving up on all worldly goodies? Does spirituality imply religion, mysticism, occult? The answer is 'NO'.

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I get many queries to my posts. A lot of them imply a good understanding of what I write. That does not automatically mean that all of you have embarked on a journey to BASIC HAPPINESS. Please take your time. Yet, a lot of pondering about the pros and cons does not help. Having understood the paradigm, it is only resistance within that holds us from taking the plunge. When you do that, it will be on the spur of a moment. That's how I started off. I went on debating for 3 to 4 months, then one day I just let go and got onto the journey.

Another set of questions, though fewer in number, point towards some kind of questioning, doubt - an "is that so?" kind of thought. This is not resistance. For such readers, the idea itself has not sunk in. A major reason for that springs from the myths surrounding spirituality.

Many wrongly think that spirituality is about religion. I would like to assert that being spiritual requires no religious beliefs or orientation. One can be an agnostic/atheist and still advance remarkably on the spiritual journey and enjoy the fruits of BASIC HAPPINESS or FUNDAMENTAL HAPPINESS. Whatever I write in this blog and have written in my book ARE YOU REALLY HAPPY? is based on sound logic, is amenable to science, has nothing to do with miracles, and is based on several thousands of years of research. 

Similarly, my recommended practices will not clash with any of your religious beliefs. You are free to pursue your own religious orientation. 

I can say about myself: I did not grow up in an overtly religious environment. By finding more spirit, by being able to face life more realistically, my 'need' for religion has further diminished. It is not necessary that all of you must feel the same way. I see religion as a matter of personal freedom and support full liberty to all individuals to pursue their own religious beliefs (or disbeliefs!). I have devoted a full section on religion and spirituality in my book, with the same purpose of demystifying spirituality.

The other myth surrounding any mention of spirituality is the presumption that it entails living life as an ascetic, renouncing the material world. I have assured readers in some of my earlier posts that nothing like that is necessary. I did not do any of that myself while embarking on my journey towards BASIC HAPPINESS. I keep enjoying 'things' in life.

The only difference is that you need to question your overwhelming attachment to the material world. Just 'question' it; 'notice' it; 'observe' it. Even doing this small bit uplifts you in your spiritual quest. Whenever you crave for something, notice your craving. As you keep doing this, you will reduce your pressing 'need' for those things. You will stop craving for them. However, do not fight your craving. That way more resistance will creep in. This practice of passively observing yourself, is a great spiritual exercise. Isn't  it interesting?

With this practice you will create a space between you and the things. You will not cling to them any more. You can still enjoy them. You can enjoy them even more than before, for now you do not fear losing them. 

The same is true of any important position that you may be holding. Allow that space between you and the position; do not become the position. Many leaders falter for this reason: they would have got fully identified with the position that they are holding. And, what do you think facilitates this? Yes, the same old culprit: the EGO.

Makes sense? Read on.

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Deepak Chatterjee

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FUNDAMENTAL HAPPINESS Series 25 - The Spiritual Politician

The Spiritual Politician

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Hello Friends,

It's election time in India! There is a lot of excitement, anticipation, anger, frustration, hope and despair - all emotions that one can associate with human existence. During elections we have almost anything that adds flavour to the noise surrounding the world's largest democracy. Do we also not enjoy the entertainment, fun, humour and sarcasm that such times throw up? Many of us are glued to TV sets, iPads or other gadgets to catch up with the latest! This is going to go on until the process of elections is over in May this year and the results are out. For readers outside India, it would be worthwhile to put out some facts about general elections in India. 

These are elections to the Lower House of Parliament through which people of India directly elect a total of 543 members. Approximately 800 million adults are registered to vote. The coalition of political parties that can cross the half way mark with 272 members forms the government. Gone are the days when a single party could do that, not after 1984! This political formation also selects the Prime Minister, who in turn puts in place a cabinet of ministers. These elections are held every five years, unless political compulsions require early elections. 

Amid the din of this excitement, some readers of this blog have asked me questions about where politicians figure in the unhappiness-happiness scale of human existence. Are most politicians fundamentally unhappy? I have wondered about this myself: Do politicians display more angst than others?

Let me clarify that the basic human condition of despair, anxiety, meaninglessness or depression is universal. It would be difficult to postulate that this human malaise is seen more in one category of professionals than others. What could be of interest is to explore how politicians, like other human beings, could benefit from a bit more spirit in their lives. And how politics could consequently change in democracies across the globe.

In my book ARE YOU REALLY HAPPY? I have devoted separate chapters on the benefit of spirit in different sections of society: youth, CEOs, subordinates... I did not write any section on Spirit and Politicians. Let me do that now.

I have been stressing this again and again: the biggest benefit to anyone who has advanced spiritually is the substantial diminution of the EGO. This is obviously true for our politicians as well. When you watch politicians bicker over issues with opponents, often it is the same old monster that surreptitiously rears its head: the EGO. When I say this, I am not making any value judgement about politicians being good or bad. They are as much the victims of ego play, often despite having the best of intentions, as any one of us. I have always maintained that ego creeps in on the sly. That happens with politicians too.

Politicians often have to take a firm stand on various issues. This could be due to political compulsions or crass opportunism. This position could well be based on certain principles. But do politicians get too identified with their stand? Then at least part of the determination is driven by ego, before it completely takes over. When ego takes over, we stop thinking, we are judgemental, we feel threatened, we are negative, we turn unnecessarily aggressive, we may even manipulate, scheme and get vindictive. All balance is lost. The sound principles from where politicians started are completely lost by now. But they remain in denial. 

Yes, another major problem with ego is that it prompts us to be in denial. This is true for all of humanity. We lose the courage to be authentic. For a politician, this translates into denials about the direction in which the politics of his political party is going. Politicians vehemently denying charges and rubbishing scrutiny by media and civil society is a common sight. We have also seen well meaning politicians and political parties, straying off course and getting into things that are superfluous or disgusting or both.

To say this does not mean that politicians should not take a firm stand on issues of national interest. Rather, a person with more spirit in his life will probably find it easy to take a firm stand on any important matter based on conviction and backed by a strong value system. He is less likely to be swayed by the temptations of compromises. However, a politician also has to be in the business of politics and will, understandably, find himself in situations where he has to be flexible and amenable to political calculations and the changing dynamics of the politics surrounding him. Navigating through all this from a value system keeping ego at bay is the crux of the matter.  Where does practicality end to give way to political dexterity, to some grand vision or to plain opportunism? This is for each politician to judge. Time, however, will always judge a politician in the overall context, years later. And, time always makes a fair assessment. 

My take is that the spiritual politician will always be judged favourably by history, even if earlier he was criticised. I normally do not take individual names as examples. But one name undoubtedly stands out: Mahatma Gandhi, the father of the Indian nation. He was able to lead a peaceful movement to eventually get freedom for his motherland. He protested, sat on fasts, disobeyed and created a mass movement, often disagreeing with his own colleagues, friends and well wishers. But not one move of his emanated from ego. Even at the peak of his tough stand against colonial rule, never did he display any negativity or arrogance. Yet he was able to do plain speaking, calling a spade a spade, whenever necessary.

He was certainly UNHAPPY with colonial rule. That's what prompted him to pursue his vision. But that was CIRCUMSTANTIAL UNHAPPINESS. Fundamentally he was at peace with himself. His lifestyle demonstrated that. His lifestyle also exhibited his FUNDAMENTAL HAPPINESS. History has recorded many such illustrious examples of spiritual politicians throughout  the globe. They have brought in phenomenal changes in the lives of mankind - changes for the better. Others have been either just names, or leaders with a few 'wins' against a backdrop of bad politics or poor personal track record.

Cheers!

Deepak Chatterjee

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